Being a born Catholic, I've been struggling against my doubts of Jesus being the divine God himself…. I just discovered Unitarianism and Universalism recently only, but it fits so well with my thoughts, feelings and beliefs!
However, my question is, should Unitarian-Universalism be considered a religion? Can I consider myself a Unitarian-Universalist when I disagree with certain rules or principals that define Unitarianism or Universalism individually? Can I consider myself a Unitarian-Universalist if I don't want to go to Sunday worship sessions?
The Sunday worship that is conducted seems to be a very Christian thing to do. What exactly do the sermons or services entail?
My answer (very slightly edited for the Blog):
Whether or not Unitarian / Universalism is a religion or not depends, obviously, on the definition of religion that is used. A definition that requires a specific belief in the practitioner, or a specific system of beliefs, would have trouble including not only U*Us but also other groups which would consider themselves religious but not share the specifics. A definition that merely requires that some specific beliefs are held throughout the community would reject not just U*Us but most groups of sincere people because almost any group has more variety in it than its leaders promote. As you will know from your experience with the Catholic Church, it sidesteps this by having a definition based on acceptance of authority and beliefs are secondary to this. Other definitions focus on practices. Most U*Us choose a definition of religion which focuses on processes, particularly development, and while processes need concrete examples (including beliefs) for illustration, the examples are seen as secondary and changeable during the exercise of the process.
For a U*U, our religion is a community united in search, not a community united by common answers. Of course, there are limits to diversity within any group, but we err perhaps too much on self-expression and sometimes not enough on the community dimension of search. An individual's religion, therefore, is seen in attempts to connect lives with the totality of experience, personal and historical, giving shape and meaning to things like suffering, growth, love, death, integrity, etc.
Most U*Us feel that their own observations and reflections are insufficient in depth or breadth without the benefit of being in a sharing community with this sort of practice built in. I would say that yes, one can be a U*U without wanting to participate in regular worship -- but the qualitative level of one's own experience and the great talent most of us have for self-deception make this course second best, at best.
Sunday services are usually held on Sundays for social reasons -- it is a time relatively free from work commitments and a time that can usually be adjusted to family commitments. But Sunday is not a holy day for U*Us in any intrinsic sense. While the practice varies between societies and between congregations within a particular society, the following elements would be fairly typically included:
Opening
Singing
Prayers/ Meditation/ Silence for reflection
Readings
Sermon
Closing
The Opening is the formal beginning of time together. In recent decades most (but not all) of our congregations around the world will start by lighting a candle/ chalice and saying some words that both symbolise the values to be reflected on and call people together. There are examples from around the world on the ICUU website. ICUU circulates a monthly Chalice Lighting set of words that many of our churches use, although local or national compilations of such words are also very common.
Singing is one non-logical way for participants to participate more fully, i.e. move from being observers to participants. The Non-Logic is important -- not that we turn our minds off totally, but the aesthetic dimension is at least equally close to a sense of purpose in life as the rational. Singing is also a good way of helping the participants focus their energies -- in our practice we almost always sit for prayers or meditation and we almost always stand to sing. Typically hymns are spread through the service and our usual order of service is thus sometimes referred to as a hymn-sandwich.
Prayer/ Meditation: Few of our members seriously believe that petitionary prayer has any effect on the spirit of the universe, but some see value in such prayer as a focus of our thoughts and energies which may affect the way we see and do things. Praise and confession are elements of many prayers that we would find meaning in, although not necessarily the same meaning as other traditions where God is not only personified but anthropomophised. Many of our ministers and congregations have come to use the word 'meditation' rather than 'prayer' during a service, but the word 'meditation' is used rather loosely in this case to refer to a non-petitionary uplifting reading, perhaps with a musical background. Occasionally space is provided under this heading for members of the congregation to contribute during this period. Some churches, particularly in the USA, have a time of Sharing Joys and Concerns (with some slight variations on the name) where people are invited to come up to the front and say a few words about what is engaging their attention in family or world that morning. The Sharing of J&C is usually towards the front of the service and many ministers do not like it because of the difficulty of dealing with members that are enamored with the sound of their own voices.
Readings can be from almost any source. We do not have a set liturgy nor a 'church year' with fixed points of celebration requiring definite readings. Nor do we expect readings to come from 'Scripture'. The readings represent the sharing of the heritage, reminding us that worship takes place in the context of the life of the congregation and not just the moment. It is also a reminder that we have an attitude that the business of the congregation includes contributing to the heritage as well as transmitting it -- "Revelation is not Sealed" is a common phrase with us. Normally the person leading the weekly service chooses the readings with one eye on the theme for the service.
The Sermon, or address, is best when it is a bridge between the heritage and the contemporary concerns of the members, mediated by the personality and talents of the worship leader. This is not always possible. For example, when there is no settled leader and visitors fill the pulpit. A visiting preacher can only look to share their experience in some general areas of life. A sermon should include some tie-in to the benefits (not necessarily the superiority) of the liberal approach to religion which defines our movement, helping participants in their own developing spirituality. It can be theological, or historical, or aesthetic, or about practical action, but should not be a lecture. In most of our churches it is the high point of the service and ministers typically spend 2 to 3 days preparing the sermon.
The Closing is important as an expression of the covenant of the congregation: we are a church where people come together by choice, where our leadership is democratically chosen, where our basis is not common beliefs but a mutual commitment to live the best we can together. The Closing (usually a hymn plus a few sentences and maybe a congregation sung response) effectively is a commission to go out into the world and take whatever inspiration or strength or comfort we have shared to suffering people around us.
There are many other elements that can be part of U*U worship. Some congregations have a brief period of passing the peace (saying 'peace' or similar words with handshake or hug) at the begining, a few do this at the end as part of the Closing. Sometimes we have responsive readings; sometimes we have 'sacred dance' in place of a reading; sometimes the chalice candle is ritually extinguished to indicate the end of the service. There is the physical setting and its aesthetic “tone”. Usually there will be instrumental (normally organ or piano) music. Sometimes churches will have a banner (designed and made locally) which hangs in the church, visible but not the main focus -- at the national or district meetings / events these are brought out and paraded -- perhaps also at local civic events where appropriate.
In summary, public worship is a regular period where we gather as a community to use various means of deepening our conviction to God, although the word 'God' is not necessarily used. This period will normally contain rational, aesthetic, and simple ritual elements to encourage, direct, and foster a deeper commitment in the face of the pressures of the world that pull us towards a more materialistic and in-authentic life style. I would express this as the attempt to bring our lives and our world more into harmony with the divine potential that our faith assures is present in every occasion.
We do not, as a community, have any special Rules imposed on our members. Such rules as we have are only to maintain decent community while we share differences and the usual necessary rules to make democracy work. We have expectations of honesty in our dealings with each other and as much openness as the situation and our personalities can deal with. Naturally, in practice many of us do not live up to these ideals.
One can be a Unitarian by one's self, but it's not the natural way for 99% of us. In today's modern world, however, there are some innovative ways of keeping in touch with others in ways that foster deeper commitment, even when distance is a real hurdle.
John Clifford

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